2. Organic Food Market
Think Whole Foods. You’re going to get the after-workout crowd, the woman that doesn’t want to go out and pollute her body with alcohol but wants to have a good, healthy meal.
Not only that, but on a Friday night, she’s going to meander through the aisles very slowly because she’s in no rush. It’s Saturday tomorrow.
So this is when you can use the power of observation. Walking alone with your little basket, you can see what she’s doing and comment on it.
“Hey, those are great noodles…”
“Wow, that’s a cool cake…”
“Yum, those melons look awesome!” (The ones in her basket, dude.)
Have enthusiasm in your voice and a smile. Own your words and look directly in her eyes. She’s going to think: “Hey, I didn’t expect to meet a guy tonight. This guy is kind of cute…” See how the conversation goes. She’s going to give you more of an opportunity here than you would ever get in a bar.
Hayden Panettiere shops at Whole Foods? Oh, case closed.
3. Yoga Class
This one’s going to take more balls. Take a yoga class on a Friday night. As you may know, yoga classes are full of women.
Take a 6 or 6:30 p.m. class. These are the women that are basically going to do yoga, go home, take a bubble bath, and do absolutely nothing that night. They are there to relax, unwind, and chill out.
Get to class a few minutes early. Wait in line. Stand next to a woman you like, and just go, “You know, I’ve never taken this class here. I’ve heard it’s amazing. Have you practiced with this instructor before?” (Use that term “practice”; it’s what yogis use to refer to the act of doing yoga.)
Talk to her for a few minutes. Don’t come on to her, just talk to her. Listen to her. Be friendly. When you go into the class, position yourself in the very back so when it’s time to leave, you can get out first, linger a bit, and then ask her what she thought of it. And then you can poke fun at yourself and just go, “Man, I’ve got to tell you, when they held that Downward Dog for five minutes, I couldn’t wait to get into the meditative pose at the end of class…”
It’s really that simple, and it can be that relaxed. And if you play it right and carry on a great conversation, you can grab a cup of tea or something to eat afterwards, something that a yoga girl would like to do. Bonus: yoga girls always have great bodies, they’re hot, and they’re also not afraid to do things on their own. All good things.
So now you’ve got three great, bar-free options that will explode your life with new hot women. Try one tonight, and let me how things work out.
David Wygant is an internationally-renowned dating and relationship coach, author and speaker. His most recent book is Naked!: How to Find the Perfect Partner by Revealing Your True Self from Hay House. To find out more about David and all of his dating and relationship-building products, visit him on his website at davidwygant.com.
