The dating scene can be tough, especially when you’re getting to know a new woman, so make a conscious effort to become better at first date talk. If you treat every first date like a job interview, not only will you be more nervous, but you’ll put the woman in the same position as someone trying to hire you. Go into the date with the confidence of a man that already knows a second date is coming, and demonstrate why she should be interested in you, instead of telling her why she should be interested. There’s nothing that you can do about someone you just don’t like, but these 3 ways of approaching a first date will ensure that you don’t mess up your shot at the right woman.
Follow along with a woman’s body language. Do so while you’re talking and while she’s talking. If the date ends and you’re not sure how it went, then you weren’t paying attention. If she touches her hair, her neck, or your hand, you’re doing well. If she’s constantly leaning away from her seat, she’s already looking for an exit strategy. Also, while a woman can pretend to laugh along with the conversation, look to her face and how stiff her body gets to see if she’s really buying it. Pay attention to your own body language, too, so that she doesn’t misread what you say.
