You can easily get clouded vision from the smoke and mirrors a potential love interest utilizes to snare your initial interest. It’s not uncommon. People always put their best respective feet forward during the dating period. It’s up to you not to enter into a relationship with blinders on. There are certain faulty aspects, if they exist. in a person’s character or actions that should be viewed as immediate dealbreakers. No “ifs”, “ands”, or “buts” about it, there are dealbreakers which you should adhere to without fail.
Drugs. If you meet a chick that would rather ride the white horse than breathe, umm instant dealbreaker. If you find out that drugs have become the most important element of this person’s life, the best you can do for her is get help. She’s spiraling downward on a ride you don’t want to be on. Self destructive behavior has a way of spreading, and you don’t want it to get it’s indiscriminate hands on you. Cut a druggy chick off quick, as in yesterday. Drug abuse is a deal crusher, not a deal breaker.
Possessive. Guys make the mistake of thinking that a possessive woman is cute. “She must really like me if she’s always checking up on me”. Wrong. Unwarranted jealousy and possessiveness is a sign of a deeper problem. This chick’s either got trust issues, self esteem problems, or a combination of the two. A relationship with her will be flooded with fights, littered with accusations of cheating, and clouded with an emotionally draining feel. Don’t waste your time with a woman like this.
Superficial. Materialistic people should be discarded as quickly as possible as well. If all she cares about his how much money you make, where you can take her, what kind of car you drive, then not only is she shallow, she’s a gold digger. She’ll never really care about you, that is, the real you. She’ll only care about what you can provide for her. Tell her no thanks and move on. You don’t want to spend your life showering her with gifts just to keep her around… definitely a deal breaker.