flirting with guys and gals, feel free to approach… respectfully of course.
The last ditch effort chick.
Near the end of the night, guys can get desperate. Your animal instinct is trying to get the best of you. It’s trying to get you to bag some sort of prey. You begin to rationalize “well,I don’t want to leave empty handed”. Look, buddy. If you weren’t interested in her three hours earlier, the only thing that’s changed in that amount of time is the level of alcohol in your system. She’s not magically hotter now. Do yourself a favor and leave her alone.
Hitting on a bartender is a great waste of time for most guys. Luring dudes to the bar is her job. She makes her money off of being nice to you so that you’ll keep coming back and spending all that bread on her for a few seconds of “personal” time. Now, while there are ways to get a bartender, trying it at the busiest time of night on the busiest day is plain stupid.