You’re never right. Compromise is a major key to successful relationships and if she can never bend—well, you know the rest of it.
You have the same fight 500 different ways. If you’re familiar with this scenario, it’s a blaring sign you need couples counseling. Having the same fight 500 different ways means picking a topic, any topic, and starting an argument. No matter what you’re fighting about, the argument will always find a way to siphon itself toward that same unresolved issue over which you already fought 499 times. Let’s say you start off arguing about whose turn it was to walk the dog, do the dishes or pick up the pizza, and each argument ends with you screaming at each other about money. Time to call in a counselor to help resolve that money issue.