You’re a good guy. You don’t mind being there for your woman. It makes you feel good when she comes to you for help. You don’t care if she asks you for money, time, for you to build something. As a matter of fact, you do it for her without her even having to ask. You may as well be her personal Genie. You’d do anything and everything to keep her happy. But when does it go too far? When does it start to seem like she keeps you around ONLY for the things you do for her? These six tell tale signs you’re being used should not be ignored.
She expects stuff. She’s become accustomed to you doing things for her. Now, any good boyfriend would want to do things for his little snookie wookie, but a good girlfriend isn’t going to expect you to do them. If she gets mad during the few times you couldn’t do her favors, then it’s pretty obvious this girl is using you. Check out an example. You give her money to pay her cell phone bill. The one time you can’t, because you have something else to pay for, she throws a fit. She’s become accustomed to you footing her bill so she isn’t even trying to save the money on her own to pay it. You’re being used.