Guys do it all the time. Dating multiple women at once isn’t an uncommon occurrence… for jerks. If you’re considering doing the same, these six ways to date two women at once and not feel like an awful human being will help you to rationalize such animal like behavior. Developing an ability to think of nothing but your own feelings is the foundation for successfully pulling off this social juggling act. Here’s how to date two women, and not feel awful about it.
Be truthful. The best way to salvage your emotions is just to be honest. Let both ladies know you’re not trying to be tied down. If they choose to go along with it, then it’s their problems right? You told them both. When you start feeling like a jerk, simply remind yourself that you told them you didn’t want an exclusive relationship. Now, try not being hurt when they do the same to you.
Suppress Emotion. Don’t get too close to either of them. Don’t share intimate aspects of your existence. Don’t be there for them. All you’re there for is to go out and have a good time. If you build no emotional connection, then you don’t run the risk of feeling like a jerk when you realize you’ve hurt both of them. If you feel like you’re becoming particularly attached to one woman over the other, then you have a decision to make: continue down the primrose path, or break it off with one of them.
No sex. Sex breeds more than just babies. It builds a connection and personal feelings. Guys try to ignore them, but it happens to us too. Once you enter into the sexual realm with someone, feelings are bound to develop. If you don’t want to feel awful about dating two girls, don’t have sex with them. Simple as that. Avoid anything intimate, or you’ll open Pandora’s box.
Don’t trust either one. The easiest way to justify dating two girls is to make yourself believe, really believe, that either one of the chicks would cheat on you given the chance. Lots of men who juggle women have trust issues. Tap into your own trust issues, and you too can date multiple chicks without feeling that sting of remorse. Make yourself really believe that they aren’t trustworthy. Find “evidence” to support your claims.
Indulge every temptation. The best way to get over being a jerk is to submerse yourself in being that jerk. Lie, cheat, be as much of a selfish jerk as you can be until you just get used to it. Eventually you’ll go numb to the fact that you’re acting so badly. You won’t care about them, only your selfish wants. Seriously, it gets easier the more you do it. Strive to be the biggest Dorian Gray you can be.
Don’t date two for too long. Put your girls on shifts. Date two chicks for a few months, then cut them off. Find two more girls to do the same to. You’ll never be able to develop lasting relationships this way, but look on the bright side: these women won’t develop feelings for you either. They’ll forget about you very quickly and attempt to move on to guys who will appreciate them. You won’t cause any lasting damage, which should make you feel good. All the while you’ll be meeting more and more women without establishing anything. Eventually you’ll be as old as Hugh Hefner trying to find someone to hang out with you… without Hefner money.