In terms of I-could-die-happy-right-now events, having Bill Murray speak at your bachelor party is way up there, and that’s exactly what happened to one man this weekend. Murray was dining at a Charleston, South Carolina, steakhouse where the party was being held; one of the groom’s friends coaxed him in, where he delivered some extremely sage advice on video. “I have some experience with this. You know how they say funerals aren’t for the dead, they’re for the living?” he began, then delivered a recommendation for those for whom it wasn’t too late: “If you have someone you think is the one…”