Along with knowing how to dance and how to dress, another tool in the art of sealing the deal is knowing how to give a fantastic backrub. Not only does it establish intimacy in a “safe” way, but even the tensest woman loves a man who can help her relax. If you can be that guy, the ladies will be banging down your door. And that probably won’t be the only banging going on. Here’s your simple three-part plan.
1. Set the Mood
Unless you’re Fabio, it’s not the best idea to break out your Luther Vandross records, candles and incense. Give her a comfortable place to rest her head, but also provide her with some good smells and sounds for the duration. This can be a little difficult to pull off when you’ve just got some chick over your place chilling and you want to take it to the next level. That’s why I always keep nice smells and sounds around my place—it’s best to be prepared for a situation like this. You can seamlessly transition from “hanging out and watching a movie” to giving her a backrub that’s quite possibly going to separate her from her clothes. Feel free to suggest that. Not only is she going to have a better experience the more clothes she takes off, you’re going to get an A for effort even if she shoots you down, because as I’m sure you know if you’ve been reading my columns, chicks dig a guy with confidence.