Violet Blue

IS ANAL SEX DIRTY?

By Violet Blue

When I was in my early twenties and I was still an ass virgin, a fellow porn girl told me: "You've never been butt-fucked? You don't know what you're missing!" As I soon learned, she was right, but then I was biased by the usual taboo that anal sex is "dirty". Well, anal sex is dirty if you are dirty. There is water, soap, enemas or anal douches to clean your anus well, and if you are still squeamish, there are condoms. I won't lie: the first anal penetration hurts like hell, simply because the anus is not used to handle penises. But as every muscle, it gets used with exercise. You can train it, not only with real penises, but also using your fingers and specially designed anal vibrators. But with today's hygienic products it's possible to enjoy clean anal sex.

The myth that anal sex is "dirty" is similar to the myth that black men are "dirty". Many white girls still think like that, not necessarily because they are racist, but because black men smell stronger. I'm not a racist and in fact I love black guys, but it's a fact they stink. A few years ago I did a scene with three black guys -what is called in porn a mini-gangbang- and even though I had fun with those niggas their smell struck me as very strong. But it's not that black guys are "dirty": that's their natural body smell, like it or not! Next time you're in a metro or a bus and a black men sits next to you, you'll see (or smell?) what I mean. But many girls think that smell means black guys are not fond of showers. That's another example of a sexual bias, and just as that girl told me I didn't know what I was missing regarding anal sex, I can say to a black cock virgin: "You've never fucked with black guys? They may be ugly and smelly, but they are well endowed...you don't know what you're missing!"

Be it anal or interracial, biases and taboos are the worst enemy of good fun sex, and being open-minded is the best ally. So relax and enjoy!