Having a wingman to go out with? It isn’t, you’ve just been conditioned to think you need one. You’re going to learn how to fly solo when you need to. Use these four tips for going out without a wingman.
Find a temporary wingman. If your biggest fear is looking like the dork in the club with no friends, then you have nothing to worry about. There are a lot of other guys that’ll be standing around eye hawking women. You can always grab one if you need them. They can be your safety net. And, no dude is going to turn you down if you say you’ve got a group of hot chicks you’re trying to crack. Here’s the thing, if you follow the rest of the tips, you won’t even need any help.
Give them something to see. Don’t go guns blazin‘ into a group of girls. Even with a wingman this tactic very rarely works. Give them a chance to scope you out. Here’s a hint. Whether or not you know it, women check you out, and within a matter of seconds they know if they’ll give you a shot. So give them something to see. Walk by the group and act like you barely notice them. As you pass, give the one you like just enough eye contact where she’s guessing if you’re interested. If she likes you, she’ll be watching you walk by. Now is still not the time to jump on her. You need to eliminate your prime obstacle first.