We’ve all been there. You’re out at a club or bar, drinking with your buddies, enjoying yourself. The music kicks up, and when you look around, there’s just this huge circle of hotties dancing in front of you. There are a few dudes mixed in there, too, enjoying a seeming embarrassment of miniskirted riches. And you quickly realize that to continue what you’re doing — standing woodenly next to them, just kind of gazing — is really not cool. But how do you join this magical world without looking like a douche? With the help of For the Win, Bret Ernst and professional choreographer Cara-Lee Knodel, that’s how. Watch it, learn it, rule the night.