To choose the best music for sex, you need to fit the songs you decide on with how you want the encounter with the woman to go. The piano music that you had stored away for a romantic anniversary might not be the best call for a steamy one-night stand, just like a hip hop song with a lot of bass might not end Valentine’s Day like you would prefer. Most importantly, you want to find the perfect combination between what comforts that woman you are with and what emotionally stimulates her.
Stay consistent with the image you’ve already created for yourself. For example, if she sees you as the guy who is into indie rock, an over-the-top R&B ballad is going to make it seem like you are trying way too hard. Find songs that enhance your image and make it seem like you know what you’re doing.
Select songs that won’t distract her from the moment. Factor in her taste in music and her experiences with those songs. For example, the most romantic song you can think of won’t work if it’s a song that makes her sad. Don’t be a snob, either, ignoring songs that you don’t like, even if you know they will set the perfect mood for her.