Hooking up with a flight attendant might be one of the most challenging accomplishments associated with travel. However, this does not mean it’s not possible. In fact, even a guy with limited flirting skills can successfully hook up with a flight attendant that tended to his needs while on the plane. You just have to make sure you remember a few crucial elements of flirting while flying.
Dress for success. If you want to hook up with a flight attendant, you’re going to have to dress well. That cruddy sweatshirt and old jeans you usually wear when you travel are not going to cut it. Try for a cool, casual look, such as dress pants and a dark colored dress shirt. Remember, you want to look presentable, but not stuffy.
Come prepared. What you occupy yourself with during the flight can make a difference in whether or not you hook up with a flight attendant. Bring some interesting reading materials, like a men’s fitness magazine or your favorite novel. In case she asks you about it, be ready to answer questions. You want to have something to look at so you don’t look desperate, but a “Glamour” magazine certainly isn’t going to cut it.
Strike up a conversation. Whether you’re trying to hook up with a flight attendant you met in the air or on the ground, you’re going to need to talk to her before you can hook up. Start with a smile and a compliment. Ask her how her day is going. Look interested and attentive. Touch her arm if possible. Think of it like you’re flirting at a bar. Many flight attendants are overworked and exhausted and will likely appreciate a little harmless flirting.
Move it to the next level. Once you get the flight attendant you want to hook up with talking, ask her about her schedule. Make sure she’s available for a hook up. Then, let her know you’re free by saying you’re traveling alone, staying in a nearby hotel or visiting the destination city for the first time with no tour guide. Add a slight suggestive nature to your tone and keep that suave smile. If she’s into the hook up, she’ll give you some sort of sign.
Go for it. Once you’ve determined that the flight attendant is available and interested, ask her if she’s free that night. Tell her to meet you at your hotel room, which will make a hook up more possible. Drinks in the hotel restaurant or bar is a great way to initiate a hook up with a flight attendant. Once the bar is closing, invite her to your room for a night cap and take it from there.