Kissing can be a smooth and soothing art form, or it can merit you a slap across the face. The slap across the face scenario can come from kissing a woman who does not want to be kissed, but it can also come from being a really crappy kisser. Crappy kissers are selfish, pushy and frequently use way too much tongue. Good kissers, on the other hand, follow several tips that can turn a potential slap across your face a major smile across hers.
Good kissers vary with the passion and the person. No two moments are the same; neither are any two women. Good kissers match the moment by kissing softly, vigorously or all-out manically as the mood may be. Good kissers also match the kiss to the women. You can often tell by a woman’s personality if she’ll appreciate a soft, gentle kiss or a vigorous “I want you” smooch. And unless she is clawing relentlessly at your chest hair, you may want to ask before you go for the all-out maniacal kiss.
Good kissers don’t make her lip bleed, your teeth clink or stick your tongue down her throat. Avoiding those three major “don’ts” may not automatically put you in the good kisser category, but at least it takes you out of the sucky kisser one. Tongue can be overrated, especially when it ends up gagging the chick. Good kissers will keep their tongues in check and their teeth to themselves. Biting may be fine for a vampire flick, but blood oozing from an injured lip has this way of being not very sexy at all (especially if either of you are wearing white and end up with blood stains down the front of your shirt).