“Sex is natural, sex is fun!” so sayeth George Michael, and who are we to argue with him? His 80’s era beard and tight jeans are the stuff of legend. But even he would admit that after a while, sex can get routine. A little bit, anyway. It’s like, steak is delicious, but over a long enough timeline it loses its appeal, and you need some steak sauce, some mushrooms, and some onions. The sexual equivalent of these condiments would be to add something new, something exciting, to help make your sex life better, with only a minimum amount of effort. The kids call it a life hack, something of a shortcut to make life easier. But us, we call this a “sex hack,” and we’ve got four sex hacks to add some excitement to your life!
1. Clothed Male, Naked Female Massage. A sensual, full body massage is a thing of beauty. It’s a simple gesture of affection, plus it feels good. But you can add a twist to it. Off to rub your lady down, head-to-toe (she won’t say no) while she’s fully revealed, but you stay clothed. It guarantees the attention will be entirely on her, and more than that it builds sexual excitement through restraint. Holding back makes the release all the better and this simple sex hack makes the simple massage new again!
2. Role Playing. It’s cliché, but have you ever actually tried it? If you genuinely get into a character and give role playing an honest go, you’ll be surprised at how much it can add to your sex life. Slipping into someone else’s skin (metaphorically!) allows you to behave in ways you normally would not, and can raise the sexual stakes! For added fun, set up a video camera and film your own movies. The thrill of watching yourself as someone else will increase your arousal tenfold!
3. Foreplay, of a Different Sort. Before you dive into an entrée, it’s wise to whet your appetite with a few hors d’oeuvres. No one’s saying foreplay isn’t important, but after a while, even that can become routine. Enter the sex hack, and its ability to alter your sexual routine. Before sex, try pampering your lady. While fully nude, spend time brushing her hair until it shines. Rub her feet and do her nails, all while offering soft kisses and loving glances. Men may scoff, but try these things and see if they don’t work. Few women would hate the idea of a candlelight rosewater bath versus another clumsy gropefest.
4. Would You Like To Play a Game? There’s value in the unpredictable, in unforeseen outcomes. Hack your sex life and add some competition in the form of a game before sex. Be it a board game, cards, videogames, or what have you, adding a sense of fun and good-natured antagonism will help build the sexual gratification later And, as we all know, to the victor go the spoils. And the spoils of sex can be very rich indeed!