10 Erotic Sex Ideas

Looking for 10 erotic sex ideas to energize your love life? Food play, hot wax and spanking are just a few of the possibilities. Whether you’re looking for something a bit racy or teetering on the verge of kink, this collection has something for you.

  1. Play with your food. Try introducing a few delectable delights to the bedroom. Throw down an old sheet to protect flooring or bedcovers. Choose foods with aphrodisiac qualities and various textures. Pair a creamy mousse or gooey melted chocolate with firm fruit or fizzy champagne. Melted chocolate makes a fabulous body paint too.

  2. Get inn a bind. Grab some silk ties or scarves. Secure the bonds to a kitchen chair or headboard. Be careful not to tie too tightly and remember to use a safe word. Keep a pair of scissors handy for quick and easy tie removal.

  3. Bottoms up. Has someone been naughty? Spanking remains one of the most erotic and popular sex fantasies for a reason. The taboo nature of this erotic sex idea is sure to amp up the excitement of any tryst.

  4. Fantasize. Have a thing for beefy construction workers? Do memories of your high school Spanish teacher still get you all hot and bothered? Bust out the costumes and props and enjoy this fun erotic sex idea.

  5. Power Trip. Introduce a little domination. Don’t be afraid to switch roles. Playing the submissive often offers more erotic delight than playing the role of Dom. As with any erotic sex idea, set the ground rules first and use a safe word.

  6. Ice hot. Sensation play encourages lovers to experiment with different textures. A blindfold heightens the experience by ramping up the unknown factor. Fur mitts, feathers, and hairbrushes all offer interesting sensations. Try alternating drips of hot wax with the soothing coolness of an ice cube. Make sure to only use pure paraffin wax candles during hot wax play as they have the lowest burning temp. A layer of baby oil on the skin helps wax peel off easier too.

  7. Mother, May I? Give childhood games an erotic twist. The possibilities are endless. This is one erotic sex idea that provides couples a chance to ease into the world of kink as they expand their sexual horizons.

  8. Watch me. There’s just something so incredibly naughty about being watched. Take turns watching your partner undress or masturbate. Make this erotic idea a bit racier by playing the role of peeping tom.

  9. Swing time. Invite another person or persons into your bedroom. Threesomes continue to grow in popularity. Swing groups online and in real life help couples find that perfect someone to join the bedroom fun.

  10. Through the back door. Anal sex remains one of the most common erotic sex ideas couples enjoy trying. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander, in this case. Many men find the idea of their girlfriends or wives giving them anal sex among the most erotic and taboo. Take it slow and keep the lines of communication open if you give this one a whirl.

 

 

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