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10 First Date Conversation Tips

By: Mishka Bulldozer

Break Studios Contributing Writer

When you've finally landed a dinner with the lady of your dreams, you're going to need these 10 first date conversation tips. The following ideas should be used as guidelines towards making your first date as memorable and enjoyable for both parties as possible. The easiest way to kill the mood is an awkward silence, so here are some first date conversation tips to get the good times going.

  1. Ask her about her favorite job. This first date conversation tip is a great way to get you both talking about your professional lives in a casual way. Plus, you're focusing the conversation on her, which makes her feel like the center of attention and allows you to sit back and enjoy the good company.
  2. Find out where her dream vacation would be. This is one of those topics that will allow her to look far away into a dream world and blissfully accounts what it would be like to visit Paris, Cabo, or even Vietnam. You both can talk about popular destinations or even compare notes from where you both have visited.
  3. Ask her what her favorite childhood pet was. Not only are you showing that you're an animal lover, but you're letting her talk about her youth, You get to find out more about her personal history while trading delightful stories of years past when she was bright-eyed and innocent. Definitely a great way to showcase your thoughtful side.
  4. Find out what her parents do for a living. Again, this is a great first date conversation tip because it allows you to find out about her past without being too invasive. You're showing that you care about where she cam from and are willing to know about her family than most of the other guys who have courted her, which is a definite positive in your profile as potential boyfriend material.
  5. Ask her about her favorite super hero. It will be difficult to contribute to this topic without sounding too nerdy, so unless she's into that, try to exercise some caution. If executed correctly, this can lead to some fun and light-hearted conversation between the two of you, making it one of the best first date conversation tips ever.
  6. Ask her what her favorite movie is. Much like the super hero question, do your best to exercise restraint and not sound like a total snob when asking this question. For instance, if she absolutely loves "Legally Blonde," don't chide her about her childish taste in movies. Instead, take it as an opportunity to get to know her better and find out what has had a profound impact on her life.
  7. Find out what her favorite season is. It may sound odd, but this is a fantastic way to get to know someone, especially during a first date. You get a glimpse into where her happiest memories lie, and the conversation can easily segue into what activities you both enjoying doing around that time of year. 
  8. Ask her what the worst date she's ever been on was. If she says "this one" without a smirk or any hint of yanking your chain, you might as well just get up and walk away at that point. However, if she responds positively, you two have something fun to trade stories about for a little bit. 
  9. Ask her what her favorite drink is. You can find out a lot about a person from their choice of sauce, even if her answer is "water." Now is your chance to showcase your analytical skills and see if you can't find out more about her personality from her answer. Or, you could simply propose that you give her that very same drink in your apartment after dinner.
  10.  Find out what her dream car is. Much like the vacation question, you get an introspective look at her while allowing her to talk about her hopes and dreams. She doesn't need to be a total gear-head to desire a certain make and model of automobile, so be sure to encourage her if she draws a blank. That way, both of you have an equal part in the conversation.
Posted on: Oct. 06, 2010