10 Pick Up Women Tips

By: Anessia Walker

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Before you make your move to approach a woman you will need these "10 Pickup Women" tips. You want to make sure the moment is right before going up to a woman who has tickle your fancy. These tips will increase your chances of picking up the woman of your dreams.

  1. View the surroundings around her. Make sure she is not with someone who has just stepped away. You don’t want to risk causing a physical altercation,  make sure she is not already making eye contact with someone else. You don’t want to step in the middle of two people already flirting with each other, trying to pickup the same woman, that can be very embarrassing.

  2.  Spot women that are alone, rather than women that are in a group. Women that are alone are more inviting and easier to pickup. Because they are probably looking for some company and women that are with their friends may be having a girl’s night out. They may not be looking for and encounter with a man and may be more likely to shoot you down.

  3. You are at a club and you notice a woman dancing. Perfect opportunity to ask her would she like to dance or better yet just go and start dancing on side of her. If she doesn’t seem to mind, start dancing in front of her. Women expects guys to try and pick them up at a club.

  4. Show your interest early but try to be creative when picking up a woman. Men are always ready to buy a lady a drink to make her looser; lose all inhibitions. Instead of offering to buy her a drink get her an appetizer and say I see you already have a drink so I wanted to get you something to eat so you want forget the moment when we meet.

  5.  Don’t waste too much time twittering your thumbs. If you noticed an attractive woman you would like to meet, I guarantee at least five other guys have their eyes on her an are planning to try and use their pickup lines on her. So while you trying to mustard up the courage to approach her, someone else may beat you to the punch.

  6. Don’t come on to aggressively. Women do not respond well to a guy getting all in their face trying to prove they are the dominant species. If anything that is intimidating and a little scary to the woman and she may avoid you.

  7. Be confident and not arrogant. Women like it when a man is not afraid to approach them, or even a little nervous about introducing themselves. What they don’t like is a guy full of himself thinking they can pickup any woman they want.  Acting, like they are doing the woman a favor by making advances at her.

  8. Never try to make a pass at a woman when your head is not clear because of alcohol. It is such a turn off when a guy tries to come on to a woman when he has too much to drink, even if he’s very attractive. In a normal situation the woman probably would be alluring, but because the guy is tipsy and may be saying inappropriate things. The woman probably will have a negative reaction to the guy.

  9. Try to be very engaging when having a conversation with a woman. Humor is always a good way to break the ice and have a nice little chat. Never try to impress the woman by telling her what kind of car you drive or how big your house is, let her just find out. If she ask you those questions than you might have a gold digger on your hands.

  10. It’s now time to ask her out on a date. You have enjoyed each other’s company you seem to have something in common you would like to see her again. So tell her you really would like to see her again in more of a date type setting. Just name the time and place. I’m sure she will agree.

These tips should help you to pickup a woman without playing games and trying be someone you are not.

Posted on: Aug. 18, 2010