10 Sensual Love Making Tips

By: Julie Atos

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Here are 10 sensual love making tips. Great passion and fire are two ingredients for sensual lovemaking.  An increase in quality love making can be a positive correlation to level of happiness in the relationship.  In other words, the better your sex life is with your partner, the happier the two of you will be.  These ten tips will increase the sensual sex in the bedroom.

  1. Set the sensual mood throughout the day.  Foreplay does not begin in bed, but throughout the day.  Send your partner or spouse love notes throughout the day.  Email and text messages that emphasis how attractive he or she is.  Perhaps leave a voicemail outlining what you would like to do to him or her when you get home.  After work come home and make a nice meal paired with wine.  This will set a sensual mood for the remainder of the evening.
  2. Boost your partner’s confidence.  A women’s confidence is directly linked to her sexual power.  Take time to let her know how beautiful she is and how much you are attracted to her.  Doting compliments on her sensual love making ability, will give her self-assurance in the bedroom to perform better.
  3. Dress for the sensual occasion.  Men are stimulated visually.  Dressing appropriately will help to encourage your man to take action.  Wearing sexy lingerie is a way to intensify sensual sex in the bedroom.
  4. Add ambience.  Create a sensual mood by lighting candles and dimming the lights.  Soft music is a great way to set the sensual mood.  The shadows mixed with the dim lighting are a perfect stage for increased sensual sex.
  5. Exploration and touch.  When we were younger, getting to second and first base was a reason to brag to your friends.  As an adult, everyone is focused on home base.  Women like the touch and feel of a man’s hands on their body.  Explore her body with a caress and touch at the sensual points in the body.  Spend more time on first, second and third base before stealing home.
  6. Make foreplay the goal.  Enjoy each other and focus primarily on foreplay.  Sensual lovemaking is about the journey and not the ending.  So take your time in the foreplay session as the fire and passion build.  An increase in quality foreplay will increase sensation during intercourse.
  7. Position yourself for a better experience.  In conjunction with exploration, trying different positions will increase the sensual sex experience.  At times, sex can be routine and needs a little spice.  Trying new sensual sex positions does not require great flexibility.  It only requires both partners to be open for a new sensual experience. 
  8. Oral sex as a stepping stone to sensual sex.  Giving oral pleasure to your partner increases the sensuality between each other.  The key to oral sex is to take your time and enjoy.  Your partner will be more willing to let go knowing that you are focused on their pleasure.
  9. Communicate with the eyes.  To increase the sensuality during sex, communicate your feelings and passions with your eyes.  Look into your partner’s eyes will let them know that your focus is in the moment. 
  10. Slow down!  Sensual lovemaking is not the same as a quickie.  Slow the motion down and take your time.  During intercourse vary the speed and penetration between long, hard thrusts and slow, deep movements.
Posted on: Nov. 09, 2010