10 Sexy Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

By: Rachel Andrews

Break Studios Contributing Writer

These 10 sexy questions to ask your girlfriend are a great way to get to know her better. To get the most out of this interview be open-minded to her answers. Don't cringe if she says something you don't like or make fun of any of her answers. Be willing to answer questions she asks you, too. This type of communication can greatly improve your sex life by giving you a peek into the inner workings of her sexual desire, preferences and fantasies.

  1. Do you have any fetishes? Strange things turn people on all the time. Maybe it's shopping for shoes or that cute mailman's uniform. Finding out what turns on your girlfriend gives you the opportunity to surprise her when she least expects it.
  2. Do you get turned on when you see yourself naked in the mirror? This is something few people will admit to for fear they'll be viewed as narcissistic.  There is nothing abnormal about becoming aroused by your own body.
  3. What do you think about when you masturbate? This will give you a glimpse of how her mind works. Some women develop elaborate fantasies that are refined over the years. Others need nothing more than the thought of their boyfriend's abs.
  4. Have you ever had a sexual experience with a woman? Experimenting with the same sex is common among females. If she has done more than just make out with her roommate in college, see if she ever had feelings for a woman. Her answers might give you a whole new perspective on her preferences.
  5. What are your favorite sexual positions? Find this out and add it to your repertoire. Your sex life will benefit and she may reciprocate by being more willing to switch into your favorites.
  6. Have you ever participated in group sex? If you're thinking threesome, think again. Beyond the trio lies the promise land. She could have been at that one party that turned into an all out orgy, and you probably won't find out until you ask.
  7. What is the kinkiest thing you've ever done in bed? Maybe she has a latex suit hiding in the back of her closet. Maybe she's a dominatrix in disguise. It's possible she has reservations about being her most uninhibited self in front of you. Make her feel that she won't be judged and her answer might surprise you. 
  8. What is the highest number of orgasms you've had in one day? If her answer is a high number don't be discouraged. Plan an all day event where you break the record. You'll be talking about that day for years to come.
  9. Where is one place you've always wanted to have sex but haven't yet? The answer to this question could seriously benefit you. If you share the same desire for the location she specifies plan a secret rendezvous to make her fantasy come true. 
  10. Have you ever made a sex tape? Answering yes to this suggest that your girlfriend is comfortable with her sexuality and her body. And if she has, she might want to do it again.
Posted on: Dec. 08, 2010