10 Signs You Should Marry Her

Here are 10 signs you should marry her before you lose her. Popping "the question" can be a little gut-wrenching. You will vow to spend the rest of your life with her “till death do you part.” At any rate, you have a life-changing decision to make. This decision is important and these signs should make it a little clearer to you she’s the one.

  1. She respects you. The woman you decide to marry has to have respect for you and the relationship or you will run into problems. That may cause your marriage to end.

  2. Trust and loyalty. You want to know that when you are apart you can totally trust her. You should never have the feeling that she is out doing something she shouldn’t be when she can’t be reached. If there is no trust in the relationship, there is no point of getting married.

  3. There is great communication between the two of you. If you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. If not, you will be in for a very lonely marriage.

  4. Your parents adore her. One true sign that she is the one: She passes the parent test. Especially with your mother whose usually the biggest critic when it comes to your girlfriends. If she gets along with your mother and other family members, she is a shoe end for winning the grand prize of becoming your wife.

  5. Does she have similar interests? Yes, opposites do attract, but if you are the outdoor type and she prefers to be inside, conflict may arise. Unless the two of you learn to compromise, that may put a snag in the marriage. If there are things you both like to do, that's a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and longevity.

  6. You think she will make a good mother because she loves kids. When considering marriage, this is one area you both have to agree on: kids. If you want kids and she is adamant about not having kids, you may be in for heartbreak if you marry her thinking you will change her mind later. There is a chance she won’t change her mind.

  7. She has good credit. Having good credit shows she is responsible when it comes to managing her money. When you get married you will accumulate debt together, but you don’t want to marry someone with sizeable debt. Her debt will become your debt. Don’t break the engagement off, but you may want to consider holding off asking her to marry you until she gets some of her debt cleared up.

  8. She has a reliable job. You may feel you should be taking care of her, but it still feels good knowing you have someone to lean on that will have your back.

  9. Get your finances in order. You have been focusing on cleaning up your credit since you been with her. Subconsciously, that is a sign you may be doing that because you have marriage on your mind.

  10. Intimacy between the two of you is great! You have to be compatible in the bedroom. If she is the energizer bunny and you are the five minute man, you are going to run into trouble. Unless she calms down or you get some vitamins to give you energy, you might run into infidelity issues later. The intimacy should be on point.

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