10 Tips For Intimate Love Making

By: Trina Berkeley

Break Studios Contributing Writer

When you are involved with someone you care deeply for, you might want ten tips for intimate love making. You want to make your woman feel special because she makes you feel special, right? The best way to show her how you feel is to make love slowly, intimately, and concentrate on making her feel like she's the only woman on earth.

  1. Slow dance with her. Turn on some Luther Vandross or another lusty-voiced chanteur. Ask your lady to dance and draw her into your arms. Sway seductively to the music and gently kiss the nape of her neck. This is the part directly behind the ears and it is very sensitive and, for some women, an erotic turn-on.
  2. Light some candles. Make sure you have a few scented candles lit in mellow scents, like vanilla or cinnamon. The aromas are arousing. Steer clear of fruity or tart scents, as these may distract the senses.
  3. Cuddle with her. When you give your special lady plenty of cuddle time, she may naturally gravitate towards other things. Tell her you love the way she feels against you, and that her hair smells good. Whatever about her turns you on, tell her intimately in a soft voice during a cuddle session.
  4. Undress her. Slowly, while engaging in long and seductive kisses, undress her. Women like to feel as though they are the center of the universe during intimate love making. Your attention to each and every button, while kissing each portion of exposed bare skin as you undress her, will send her into a blissful state from which she won't want to return.
  5. Bathe together. Run a warm bath, complete with scented candles, musky bath salts, and a couple of sponges so you can wash each other. If your bathtub isn't large enough for two people, share an intimate shower together. Take turns cleaning each other's backs. Wash every part of her body and allow her to do the same to you. By now, you both should be aching with desire.
  6. Massage her. Intimate massage oils come in a variety of scents. Some even have a warming or cooling effect. Don't massage her so well that you put her to sleep. Keep her well-oiled, and not just on her back. Reach around graze her breast to keep her interest piqued. Turn her over and massage her frontal body parts. Her desire will become so great she will probably demand that you take her immediately.
  7. LIght a fire. If your home has a fireplace, make love in front of a fire. The ambiance of the crackling wood and flickering lights create a romantic atmosphere even the most cold-hearted woman can't resist.
  8. Feed each other. Hedonistic and sexy, feeding each other is a great prelude to intimate love making. This is especially true if you feed each other food that you place strategically on your body, like a full-body all-you-can-eat buffet. Feed each other sparkling wine or champagne. Strawberries and whipped cream; grapes and cheese. Whatever makes you and your woman feel intimate and sexy.
  9. Make love in the living room. On the sofa, on the big easy chair, on the floor with a lot of blankets strewn about. If you're strong enough, and she's willing, do a naked dance with her legs wrapped around your torso while you make love. Women love a man who can lift them up, and making love in this position is not only sexy, but glamorous. If you can't quite achieve this, set a towel on the kitchen table or a counter, and do it there. Be adventurous.
  10. Be clean. This should be a no-brainer, but just for those guys who don't know any better, clean your place! If you intend to woo your woman, get your digs clean. That means no dirty socks or underwear should be in sight. Nothing says "mood killer" more than a pair of dirty socks tangled in your bed sheets.
Posted on: Dec. 12, 2010