5 Kinky Dating Tips

You finally landed that date and you could really use five kinky dating tips. She's fun. She's energetic. She's got a great sense of humor. And you're pretty sure she's one kinky lady! From her eclectic style to the friends she hangs with, it would seem that her interests lie somewhere far to the left of run-of-the-mill. You want this date to be the first of many. Your charm and the following tips will help to ensure that your evening out will be a singular experience for both of you with that hint of kinky that will bring her back for more.

  1. Have dinner at a sushi bar. Sushi runs the gamut from mild to wild. While it has become more mainstream in recent years, it still has a definite kinky factor. If you're going to order little bits of tuna wrapped in seaweed, that's pretty mundane. For kinky dating, you have to step up to the plate. Some would say there's nothing kinkier than a raw sea urchin pinched between the ends of your chopsticks!
  2. Go to a showing of the "Rocky Horror Picture Show." It may be over 30 years old, but when it comes to the "Rocky Horror Picture Show," camp still goes hand in hand with kink. Dress up. Throw toast. Join in on every line and song you know. It's simply a good time waiting to happen that you can take as far as you'd like.
  3. Play together with body paint. Assuming this is a first date, you both might be feeling a bit shy even if you are pretty kinky at heart. In that case, just paint each other's faces, arms and legs. Go wild and have fun! You never know what you might come up with, or where it might lead.
  4. Have a piercing good time! For something a little more permanent, go to a tattoo parlor and get a new tattoo or piercing. If she already has either, you'll already know that she's into it. Ask if she'd be interested in getting another, or a first if she doesn't already have one. By almost any standard, a tattoo or piercing is pretty kinky. Get yours, watch hers and have a great time!
  5. Go to a munch. Munches are social events set up for members of the BDSM community to meet each other. There is no sex play at a munch. It is just a lunch, dinner or social gathering where people come together to get to know each other. If the two of you have ever been curious about the lifestyle, a munch is a great place to safely explore your kinkier side.
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