5 Kinky Things To Do With Your Girlfriend

Be a warrior against bedroom ennui by trying at least one of these 5 kinky things to do with your girlfriend. So many ladies have a kink in their tail if you scratch the surface. You can non-threateningly pop one of these ideas on her with the innocent question "have you ever…..?" and listen to her response. Any of these ideas can be done with your girlfriend in either role, so don't feel limited. Note: always agree on a "safe word" in case either of you needs to stop. Kinky play can be quite magic, and also quite intense.

  1. Role Play. By taking on different personas, lovers can tap into sides of themselves they routinely hide. With a little coaxing, your reserved girlfriend may enjoy playing the strict boss lady taking inappropriate advantage of her male subordinate. Other ideas are the high school cheerleader giving an awkward teenager his first blowjob, real estate agent seducing a client while showing him a home, or college professor/co-ed scenarios.
  2. Spanking. Of the five kinky things to do with your girlfriend, this one can be introduced the most playfully. Try saying to her "that was naughty, you need to be spanked!" and see how she responds. Or, the next time you commit some silly, minor transgression, turn around, bend over, and laughingly tell her you need to be spanked! If you have no experience spanking, hand spanking is the best and safest. Over time and with proper instruction and warm up, you may decide to also use household "pervertibles" such as rubber spatulas, the back of a wooden brush or wicker rug beaters. Leather, wooden and metal paddles for harder spankings are available from many vendors.
  3. Foot fetish play. Do you fantasize about being at a beautiful woman's feet, pampering her and catering to her every whim? Many women we have spoken to enjoy having their feet massaged and licked. If you love shoes or Cuban Heel stockings, buy her a pair, and ask to help her put them on, and then at the end of the night, help her take them off and offer to rub her tired feet. Few women can resist this. As you both become more comfortable with foot play, she can rub her feet in your face, or along your cock, or pinch your balls with her toes.
  4. Sensory Deprivation/Restraint. Otherwise "ordinary" sexual acts can become quite charged when one partner is stripped of a sense or restrained. If your girlfriend likes to be on top, slip a blindfold on and the remaining senses available to you will work overtime. The feel of her tits on your chest, or her hands on your balls as she rides you will all be heightened. Don't try rope bondage without proper training first, as it's an art form that requires technique and safety knowledge. Fortunately, many cities offer classes from rope pros Two Knotty Boys or Midori to get you started safely.  While you wait to take that rope class, purchase a pair of leather cuffs and restrain her, or have her restrain you while you go down on her or vice versa. Old-fashioned, missionary style sex is more fun when one partner is restrained!
  5. Public play. Does your girlfriend enjoy being anally penetrated? Buy a modest butt plug, and ask her to wear it while you take her to have a cocktail at a dark, romantic bar. Have her wear it while you grocery shop, even! Anal sex will never be far from her mind, and it's likely you'll both race home to indulge her anally. If you're a masochist, purchase a pair of butterfly nipple clamps and wear them under your best button down shirt while you take her on a date. Your girlfriend can every so often give the chain between the clamps a slight tug, watching you wince.

Don't be shy about trying five kinky things to do with your girlfriend. Once the cork is off, things can really get fun!

 

 

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