5 Oral Sex Tips For Guys

By: Mason Kaho

Break Studios Contributing Writer

These 5 oral sex tips for guys are easy-to-follow and easy-to-accomplish ideas that will have your woman pleased every time. Being good at oral sex is a great mark of any lover. Go down on your woman with expert technique and not only will you have her back in your bedroom night after night, you’ll have her begging to return the favor.

  1. Vary your pace and firmness. A key oral sex tip for guys is to change things up as you are licking your lover. She doesn’t want the same tongue stroke and the same friction level for fifteen minutes. You can move your tongue up and down and side to side and lick her very firmly and sometimes just barely graze her. Of course you can suck her entire clitoris—carefully—into you mouth. Changing things up will make her feel really good.
  2. Don’t forget your fingers. An important oral sex tip for guys is to bring your fingers in on the action. As you lick her clitoris, let your fingers gently caress the folds of her labia and penetrate her very lightly. This sensation will obviously simulate the feeling of a penis going into her, allowing her into clitoral stimulation and penetration at the same time. As she gets closer you can go deeper, feeling her clench and squeeze your digits.
  3. Don’t just focus on her clitoris. Likewise with your tongue, you should explore her vaginal opening. After you’ve licked her clitoris for a long time and get her nice and warmed up, move down and let your tongue slide in and out of her. She will love the wonderful feeling of your slippery, slithery tongue darting in and out of her. After you’ve done this oral sex tip for a few minutes, move back up to her clitoris. Repeat.
  4. Let your hands explore. A good oral sex tip is to let your hands roam your partner’s body while your tongue is working. She will be in the throes of passion and her entire body’s sensitivities will be heightened. Let your hands move over her thighs and calves, over her torso and, of course, her breasts, stopping to pinch her nipples. Having your hands working will make sure her entire body gets in on the act.
  5. Finish strong. As your partner reaches the finish line, an important oral sex tip is to find your rhythm and stick with it until your job is done. You will be able to tell from her movements and moans that she’s getting close. Find a spot she likes and keep up a steady pace, getting her closer and closer. When she hits her peak, stay with her, regardless of how much she bucks, gradually slowing your pace a bit so you don’t over-stimulate her. If your partner is able to have multiple orgasms, give her a second to recover and then start back in.
Posted on: Nov. 24, 2010