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5 Rough Sex Tips

By: Robin McDaniel

Break Studios Contributing Writer

There is nothing more unfulfilling than a boring, routine sex life and these 5 rough sex tips to spice things up might be just what you and your partner need. Rough sex can make sex more interesting when performed correctly and can be a part of a healthy and active sex life among consenting partners. 

  1. Use bondage. Bondage can be fun during sex if you use it correctly. One of the five rough sex tips is to try using handcuffs, ties, belts or other materials to tie your partner to the bed. Before playing bondage games, be sure you partner is into them. You do not want to whip out the handcuffs and suddenly find out she is freaked out by this kind of rough sex. Have a conversation about likes and dislikes before beginning any bondage sex and then have a ball. There is a certain trust element to bondage activities as well and it is probably best to know and trust your partner before becoming involved in bondage activities.
  2. Fantasy scenarios. Certain fantasies you or your partner might want to play out, such as fighting or sexual manipulation, can be fun for both parties. One of the five rough sex tips include being careful to avoid getting too rough and causing injury to your partner to ensure sex stays safe when fantasies get rough. Being surrounded in soft pillows or bedding will help ensure your play area is gentle to both of your bodies during rough sex.  
  3. Toys. Keep toys handy and next to the bed in a drawer so you're ready for use during rough sex play. Whether it is body lotions, dildos, whips or masks, the more available they are for use, the more likely you will be to use them during rough sex sessions with your partner. Keeping your sexual toys at the ready is one of the five rough sex tips that will make sex more fun and spontaneous as well.
  4. Lotions and lubes. When sex gets rough, it sometimes requires additional lubrication. Keep multiple lubrications at the ready to use on your partner when sex gets rough and crazy. Rough does not necessarily mean painful, so one of the five rough sex tips is to have fun lotions and lubes on hand to keep things as smooth and sensual as possible during rough sex.
  5. Play music. Rough sex may go better with some loud and raucous music. Whether you are into hard rock, metal, techno or rap, music that is hard and fast may make rough sex even more exciting and interesting. Burn a CD with some sick tunes to enhance your rough sex sessions.

Rough sex can be both fun and exciting if you take the time to do it right. Set up the scene and have fun performing outside of the box sexual activities that will increase the intimacy between you and your partner and increase your sexual pleasure. Use these five rough sex tips to have sensual pleasure and improve your overall sex life.

Posted on: Nov. 24, 2010