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5 Secrets To Lasting Longer In Bed

By: Brandi Macon

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you follow these 5 secrets to lasting longer in bed, you might get more play with your girl. Not all men will lasts for hours when having sexual intercourse. There are some who don’t take the time to arouse their partners. They usually last 5 minutes or so and leave their girl hanging on the edge of the “Big O”. If you need a few pointers on how to keep it up longer or please your girl, then keep reading.

  1. Massage: Most men like to get right to having sex. They’re usually done in a few minutes, leaving women unsatisfied. Sex isn’t just about you and your satisfaction; it’s about making both you and your partner happy. Women love it when they receive and give sensual massages. There’s something about a man’s strong hands roaming all over their body that turns them on. The longer the act is put off, the more intense it will be. It will last longer as well.
  2. Oral Sex: Oral sex is a two way street and one of the best secrets for lasting in bed. Most women love to receive rather than give. Just tell her that it will keep your erection up a lot longer than just getting right to sex. If she still doesn’t warm up to the idea, then slowly initiate oral. Start by giving her mind blowing oral sex. Slowly turn your body until your penis is near her upper body. Caress her breast, chin and mouth with your penis. Chances are she will take the hint.
  3. Hot Showers: Taking a hot steamy shower is a fantastic way to begin foreplay and last longer in bed. You’ll need a soft bath sponge and sensual body wash. Put just enough body wash on the sponge to make a long lasting lather. Gently run the sponge over her body, beginning with her breasts. Keep doing this until she’s covered in foamy bubbles. Hand her the sponge and let her return the favor. After washing and rinsing the soap off, head to the bed. Prepare for the fireworks and lasting longer.
  4. Kissing: Kissing is an understated part of foreplay. It’s one of the best secrets of lasting longer in bed and during sex. Kissing is not only an intimate act, it gives you time to caress each other. It’s also a way of satisfying your lady in a more intimate way. Never punish her lips with hard kisses. You should nibble at her lips and slowly explore her mouth and body with your tongue. Make your time together last longer by showing how much you enjoy each other.
  5. Talking: The best secret to lasting longer in bed and in a relationship is talking to your partner. You can have all the intercourse in the world, but it won’t be the same unless you know your partner. Don’t talk about your day. Instead say how beautiful or sexy she is. Tell her that you love her body and mind. Compliment your girl and let her know that she’s something special.
Posted on: Nov. 08, 2010