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5 Techniques For Phone Sex

By: Karsun

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Phone sex can be as much fun as being there in-person if you know the right techniques for phone sex. Whether you are talking to someone you know who's long-distance or paying an operator to act out your wildest fantasy, the following techniques for phone sex at can help you have the best time ever.

  1. Let her know what you want. Phone sex is more fun if you are acting out what really turns you on, so why would you not want to share the things that make you aroused? Regardless if it is someone you know or someone you're paying to have phone sex with, let her know exactly what it is that makes you hard.
  2. Use imagery. If it is a particular phone sex fantasy you are fulfilling, be descriptive and use imagery to set the tone for the call. If you are imagining slowly running your hands up her legs, tell her that's what you are doing. Let her paint a picture as vivid as the one you see in your imagination.
  3. Know your partner. What this means is that if you are talking to someone you know, you already may have an idea of what her boundaries are. However, if you are paying for phone sex, keep in mind that the girl you are talking to has most likely heard it all, so feel free to share your deepest and darkest phone sex fantasies. Why pay for something and then hold back?
  4. Don't sweat the small stuff. It doesn't matter if you're in a messy bedroom and the dog walks in. You're all by yourself and no one on the other end of the phone can see you, so don't worry about how you look or what your room looks like. Remember that you are fulfilling a fantasy, so your mind you could be on an airplane having sex or in the middle of the Sahara Desert.
  5. Be as explicit as you want. As long as the person you are talking to doesn't mind, such as a phone sex operator, feel free to be as dirty as you want. Use dirty words that you would never use in public or talk about things that are taboo that turn you on. If you're talking ot someone you know, take it a little slower, just to be sure she's enjoying it, too. It's easy to use your own discretion with someone you know. If it's a stranger you're talking to, just say whatever you please. Remember, it's your fantasy and you should enjoy it.

Learn these five techniques for phone sex and be on the way to what can be the time of your life. Fantasy phone sex can be just as fulfilling as being right there with the other person as long as you allow yourself to enjoy the ride.

Posted on: Nov. 09, 2010