5 Tips On Fingering

By: Tyler Adams

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Knowing 5 tips on fingering will give you the advantage when you want foreplay to become something more. If done correctly, fingering can be a great way to turn your girl on and make her go wild. So without further ado, let’s begin by looking at the first tips for five ways to finger your girl better.

  1.  Be gentle. The first tip to fingering is to be gentle, not rough. No matter who, what, and where you’re fingering, remember that the area will be extremely sensitive. That doesn’t mean that going rough eventually won’t make her go crazy, but you’ll need to be gentle at first to actually get where you and your partner want to go.
  2. Patience is a virtue. The second tip to fingering is to be extremely patient. This means giving your partner ample opportunity to get turned on by using foreplay. Even if it doesn’t necessarily turn you on, you should consider joining your partner in games that will make them hot and bothered for you.
  3. Slow but not always steady. The next tip for fingering, after your partner is ready, is to start out slow. This means only using one finger at a time to gently finger them. Starting out with more than one finger is usually extremely uncomfortable. Try to be consistent with your fingering, so your partner becomes more immersed in the process.
  4. Plenty of the good stuff. The next tip, which is probably one of the most essential and important, is to use plenty of lube. Whether you’re using a professional lubricant, or good old spit, lube will make it both more enjoyable for your partner and easier on you. While you may be an expert at “wetting her whistle,” you should still his ample lube to prevent any injury or possible turn-offs.
  5. Down to business. Our final tip, which has been built-up from being gentle to using plenty of lube, is reaping the rewards of your work. Once she is well-lubed, try using other ways of fingering her, such as focusing on her pleasure points (g-spot) by using more fingers or focusing on this area with just one finger. Once you’ve hit the spot, you’ll be well on your way to a reward that both of you will remember for the rest of your love lives!
Posted on: Dec. 20, 2010