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5 Tips For Having A Prostate Orgasm

By: Tanya Joel

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Use these 5 tips for having a prostate orgasm and experience an intense orgasm like no other you have experienced before. Many men report that the prostate is similar to a g-spot on a woman and can result in a full-body orgasm when massaged properly. Whether you have a sexual partner or are flying solo, you can use these five tips for having a prostate orgasm.

Supplies needed to have a prostate orgasm:

  • Lubricant
  • Glove
  • Sex partner or sex toy
  • Patience
  1. Use a lot of lubricant. In order to enjoy a prostate massage, either you or your partner will want to use a lot of lubricant. A glove should be worn by the person performing the massage, unless a sex toy is used, and lubrication should be applied liberally to both the glove and the anus.
  2. Go slow. The key to learning how to have a prostate orgasm is to take it very slow. If you rush or are too rough, you will only hurt yourself. What you or your partner will want to do is begin by massaging the anus and areas around the anus. Think of this as a form of foreplay which is preparing the body for entry.  With massage, the muscles surrounding the anus will relax and make penetration more enjoyable.
  3. Slowly enter the anus. With either a finger or a sex toy, slowly enter the anus using smooth movements. Your hand should be in a position where the palm is facing the testicles of the person receiving the prostate massage. If you will be using a sex toy, purchase one that is designed specifically for prostate play.
  4. Locate the prostate. The prostate is a walnut shaped area located just inside the rectum. To have a prostate orgasm, find this walnut shaped area and begin massaging it slowly. If the person receiving the massage feels the need to urinate, it means you are working on the correct spot. Some seminal fluid may also begin leaking out of the penis; this is perfectly normal so do not be alarmed.
  5. Speed up the tempo. As with penile sex, you will want to speed up the tempo as you go. The person receiving the prostate massage will feel an overwhelming urge to ejaculate and the penis will become very hard. To have a prostate orgasm, continue to increase the tempo and pressure until orgasm is achieved.

These tips for having a prostate orgasm can be used alone or in conjunction with oral sex. When oral sex is incorporated, some people are begging for mercy before orgasm is achieved! It is a very intense sensation which is too intense for some. Practice makes perfect, so try prostate massage frequently until you get the technique down to a science.

Posted on: Nov. 03, 2010