5 Tips For Maintaining A Long Distance Relationship

By: Anessia Walker

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learn about five tips for maintaining a long distance relationship. It’s not easy to make a relationship work when you're in the same town. So, when you make a special connection with someone that lives in another town, you have to put the extra effort and creativity to make this long distance relationship work.

  1. Communicate on a daily basis. Try not to let a day pass without speaking with each other. Communication is one of the most important factors in making a relationship work, especially if it’s a long distance relationship. If you don’t have good communication skills, being able to laugh and talk about any and everything, this long distance relationship won't have a real chance of surviving.

  2. Trust one another. Trust has to be in place; without it, this long distance relationship is destined to fail. Driving yourself crazy wondering if she has someone else keeping her warm while you're not around will take its toll on the relationship. If she hasn’t given you a reason not to trust her, then try to avoid putting those types of thoughts in your head.

  3. Resist temptation. If you have wondering eyes, you need to put that in check. Of course, it's okay to look as long as you don’t touch. If you want this long distance relationship to work, then don’t put yourself in the position of being alone with another woman and don’t have the attitude that because she lives somewhere else, it’s okay to date other people unless that’s the arrangement the two of you have made.

  4. Visit each other often. Having great conversations is definitely necessary for this long distance relationship to strive, but you also have to make time to see each other. Spending as much time together will bring you closer to each other, making the relationship grow into something more intense.

  5. Positive benefits from a long distant relationship. The saying is true, “Absence make the heart grow fonder.” When you are apart, you will miss each other like crazy, but when you are together, the moments the two of you share will be special. Arguments may be none or far in between. There won't be any control or smothering issues. Just think of the great phone sex you can have or the naughty text and emails you can send and the hot little exclusive strip shows she may be willing to give you via web cam. This could be a really exciting and lasting long distance relationship.

Remember, with any relationship it takes time, patience and commitment to make it work. If you truly want this long distance relationship to work, you have to have a positive attitude.

Posted on: Oct. 05, 2010