5 Ways To Improve Sex

By: Nya Bruce

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you're looking to rekindle your love life, here are 5 ways to improve sex quickly and effectively. There's no reason to lose that special spark, no matter how many years you've been together. It only takes a few minutes a night with your partner to rejuvenate your relationship and restore the passion in your life.

  1. Communicate. This is the most effective method that you as a couple can use to enhance your sex life. Spend more quiet time together, away from the world. talk to your partner about your feelings and let her talk to you about hers. Remember how things were when you were her ever-supportive friend and confidant as well as her lover, and vice-versa? Work on that and you're well on your way to rekindling your romance and, as a result, it will improve your sex life.
  2. Preserve the romance. Remember how you used to send her flowers and letters (or emails)? Or what about the times you cooked her dinner? Or when she wore something special for you? Now that you're in an actual relationship one good way to improve sex is to keep alive all those things that you did to woo your mate. And don't forget to be spontaneous!
  3. Get to know her sexual fantasies. Consider talking to one another about your hottest sexual fantasies. Make an effort to fulfill those fantasies for one another, even if they aren't the type of fantasies that you see yourself participating in (who knows, you just might enjoy it). Learning and understanding what turns you and your lover on is a great way to spice up your sex life.
  4. Rekindle the intimacy. Foreplay is important to maintaining a healthy sex life. If you're looking to improve sex with your partner you might try things such as taking showers together. Don't forget the simple things either, like hand holding or random kisses. In bed, try learning your partner's erogenous zones. Another awesome way to improve your sex life is by giving your partner a sensual massage to start things off.
  5. Improve you. Or, at least, improve your appearance. Another good way to improve sex with your lover is to remember the look that turned them on. Stop looking like a chump and dump the frump. Wear tantalizing things around the house to get your mate heated up. Put on that special cologne that turned your lover on in the past, or take her out shopping to see what else might be equally appealing.
Posted on: Nov. 21, 2010