5 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life

By: Kathy Price

Break Studios Contributing Writer

The 5 ways to spice your sex life can not only change five nights or five days into a heightened erotic arena for you and your partner, but it can determine a turning point in your relationship that seems to have run its course. Even the best of relationships, by default over time, can morph into a platonic zone without proper attention and care. The sexiest part of relationship originates in the heart and generates the mind. Spicing up the bedroom and the sex life can reignite that inner spark that made you find each other exceptionally sexy to begin with.   

  1. Feed the erogenous zones. One of five ways to spice up your sex life means revisiting the g-spots, but with an enlightened tongue and hands. Bring the whip cream and honey to indulge the areas that drive your partner crazy. Edible underwear, edible flowers and edible massage oil with a gourmet of aphrodisiacs can turn your lovemaking into a garden of earthly delights
  2. Lights Camera Action. Sex and videotapes can make be one of the five ways to spice up your sex life. Don't just watch sexy movies. Don't just make sexy movies. Star in your own sexy movie with your honey. Set the video on and play up adoring each other, while the camera rolls. Then turn your video on with a soundtrack of hot music while you and your lover go for another round.
  3. Steal your partner away for a romantic excursion. As one of the five ways to spice up your sex life, take your love to a romantic weekend, with rose petals on the sheets, champagne in the ice bucket and chocolates in your suite in. Surprise! Paris! If Paris is out of your budget, a country inn, or even a motel, if you want to play low down and dirty will do.
  4. Change your identities to spice up your sex life. By day, your both rather like Clarke Kent and Lois Lane. Nothing wrong with that, but spice up your sex life! Buy our brunette woman a long blonde wig and flaming red tight lace tights and go-go boots, while you wear a leather jacket and leather thong and nothing else. Role-play the whole evening, and it might become a lifetime habit of fun. Take the long haired blonde woman to dinner, knowing underneath that mini-skirt she's wearing those fire alarm tights that will dance with those boots. Then, it's your turn with leather.
  5. To spice up your sex life, visit a nude beach. But, make it a game. You are not allowed to touch each other until you are back in your bedroom. Walking through a nude beach, especially if it's on a hot beach in Mexico ,can be very erotic. Slide the sand and water over your bodies to exfoliate. Sip a wine cooler as you watch the sunset nude, and when you are hot and ready after seeing nudity throughout the day, go to bed.
Posted on: Nov. 16, 2010