Adult Swinger Clubs Etiquette

Swinging has been around since the 1950's and many people find couples at swinger clubs but might not know adult swinger clubs etiquette. Those that fully appreciate the swinging lifestyle and choose to participate need to know the basic fundamental rules for swinger clubs etiquette. Knowing swinger clubs etiquette can increase the odds of having a fun-filled, safe time while not offending or upsetting anyone.

  1. Always be friendly and courteous to those in the swingers club that you are visiting; especially those that you are interesting in swinging with. These people can be new to the lifestyle or old pros but each deserve your full respect.
  2. Keep the innuendos and sex talk to a minimum. It doesn't matter if you are in an adult swinger club, be aware of how you present yourself. Foul language, pick up lines or innuendos that are obvious are not usually welcome in clubs and especially by new members. Save the sex talk for a group or circle of friends who welcome that type of conversation.
  3. Be sure to dress appropriately. Almost everyone at the adult swinger clubs is there for the same reason or curious about the lifestyle so there is no reason to wear sexually suggestive clothing. Keep it sexy but classy. In that same vein, try not to stare at others in the swingers club. It's rude and won't gain you any points among the other members.
  4. Respect the other members. You may find yourself in a situation where you do not want to proceed in the arrangement. This is fully acceptable but be aware of other people's feelings by letting them know in a respectful and kind manner; a simple gesture of kindness can go a long way. This goes both ways as well. If you feel that the couple you are with are uncomfortable, be open to letting them move on without making them feel bad about their decision.
  5. Play it safe. Always keep protection with you such as condoms and never engage in drug use unless you are fully aware of the thoughts of the others in the group and how you may react to the drugs.
  6. Keep it clean. Be aware of your own personal grooming. Persons with bad breath, body odor or an uncleanliness to them will have a hard time finding other partners or couples.
  7. Don't be a voyeur. Peeking into rooms where couples are engaged in sexual activity is rude and highly frowned upon.
  8. Be on time. Emergencies happen but it's a good idea to try to be on time to the swingers party or event. No one will find it amusing if you are fashionably late. Follow the rules and know what time you are expected to show up.

Keep in mind that every swinger's club or event may have different rules but if you follow the outlined tips on common etiquette you could be well on your way to enjoying the lifestyle without offending anyone or breaking the rules.