Dating Guide For Men

There are numerous books on the market that offer tips and advice to women on how to meet the perfect guy, but what about a dating guide for men? Dating isn't easy, and can be filled with moments of successful encounters and miserable failures. No matter how comfortable you are in yourself or your ability to interact with the opposite sex, a dating guide for men could only help to improve or enhance your dating experiences.

1. Pay attention to your appearance. An important thing for men to take into consideration when it comes to dating is what they are wearing. It doesn't matter if you spend 99 percent of your time in sweats, if you are looking to find a date you'll need to dress to impress. Most women love a man who knows how to dress himself, and that doesn't mean wearing a suit and tie. If you aren't into shopping, take a female friend, sister or even a guy friend who knows his fashion and let them help you find clothing that fits and makes you look good.

2. Grooming and hygiene count. No dating guide for men would be complete without discussing hygiene. Always shower before going on a date, and either forgo the cologne or use a light one sparingly. There is nothing worse from a woman's perspective, than going out on a date with a guy that smells like he has bathed in a strong cologne. If you have a beard or mustache make sure they are trimmed and well groomed. Get a haircut if needed and if not make sure that you actually comb your hair prior to going on a date. Women appreciate a man who cares about and put thought into his appearance.

3. Don't boast or attempt false swagger. Refrain from trying to act suave or cool for the ladies. Making wild boasts about your success, physical fitness or prowess will quickly turn most women off. The same can be said if your claims are true. Unless you're searching for a woman whose only interest is in what you have to offer, don't spend all of your date boasting about how successful you are.

4. Be a gentleman. Chances are you were taught good manners as a kid, so it's time to actually act on them when dating. Be thoughtful and respectful of her wishes. If you're the type of guy that uses foul language and often, clean it up while on a date. Brush up on your table manners when eating out and surprise her by holding open the door as she is entering a building and closing her door when she gets in the car. Displaying good manners will earn you positive points when dating.

5. Don't make sex an issue. If a date is going to turn into a sexual one, let it happen on its own. Keep talk of sex and the pressure to have sex out of your date. Women appreciate a man who has patience and isn't dating them only in the hopes of getting physical.

6. Really listen to what she has to say. This may appear last on the dating guide for men, but it is one of the most important things to dating. It's easy to get side tracked when a game is playing on the screen in the bar or when other things are going through your mind. But if you are on a date, chances are you have an interest in getting to know her. Listen to what is being said, ask questions and express an interest. She'll appreciate it and you'll better discover if this is a person you'd like to continue seeing.