Great Sex Guide

By: Brandi Macon

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you find that your love life is lacking in the intimacy department, check out this great sex guide. A smoothly running relationship depends on several things: trust, love and great sex. You can be the best boyfriend in the world, but if you don't have game, you don't have the girl. Most women don't care about the size of your penis; they care about how well you use it. They also care about how well you incorporate other types of intimacy into the relationship. Become a Casanova in the bedroom with this great guide to sex.

Foreplay

Foreplay is something you either do or don't do. Some guys don't know that foreplay is one of the most important parts of a sexual interlude. It's designed to get the woman ready for sex and make you last longer. Jumping right into it is great for a quick release or passionate display of affection. But when you want to make the act last, you need to take your time. Instead of fondling for a few minutes, stretch it out by caressing and kissing. Let your lady know that she's special and you want to please her. If you do this, you'll probably increase her enthusiasm for sex.

Talking Sexy

This sex guide recommends talking to increase your sexual side.  Women go to great lengths to stay in shape. They buy the best perfumes and accessories to please their guy. With that being said, tell her how beautiful her body is and how good she smells. You should talk about how much you want to be with her.  Also stick to real compliments and flattery. Only compliment things that are attractive to you. If you love her wild hair or Angelina Jolie lips, tell her so.

Massage

A massage is a fantastic way to ease into sex. It's sensual and intimate. Two things that can initiate hot lovemaking. You should consider having a good massage lotion or oil near by. Purchase something subtle, yet sexy. Never use anything that smells like a garden or perfume shop. You can begin by massaging your girl's feet to relax away her busy day. Also concentrate on her legs, back and breast. Ask her to reciprocate the massage. You could bring toys into the relationship as well. Try shopping together to find things that will please you both. There's nothing wrong with using "extras" to heat up your sex.

There are numerous sex guides that help you achieve better intimacy in bed. But the best guide is enjoying the time you and your partner have together. Learn to explore each other and find the hidden little spots that drive each other wild.

Posted on: Nov. 14, 2010