A Guide To Oral Sex

By: BWalter

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If it's a guide to oral sex you want, it's a guide you're going to get. Oral sex isn't some mystical science outside the realm of common male understanding. We're born with the tools necessary to engage in oral sex. If, however, you want to be that oral sex dynamo, you have to polish up on your skills. And, what's the very best way to improve your oral sex giving abilities? Practice guys, lots and lots of practice. Since we know none of you would have a problem practicing this particularly enjoyable activity let's get it started. Get ready to get wet. Here's your guide to great oral sex.

  1. Every woman is different. It's not the number of women you visit downtown that make you a great oral sex artist, it's the quality of the visits. Not every woman likes the same techniques. It's up to you to be an explorer with the girl you're with. You need to find out what specifically makes her tick instead of applying generic techniques to her pelvic region. Listen and learn. The difference between being just OK and an oral sex phenom is your ability to take the time out to find out what she likes and apply that knowledge to orgasmic ends.
  2. Be the explorer. If you didn't know certain areas in her pelvic region are very sexually sensitive, then you have other problems. That region of her body is a veritable sexual volcano. Touch, lick, bite and kiss everywhere. You're going to find something she really likes down there. Try her inner thighs. Try the area between her belly button and her sweet spot. Get in there and start looking.
  3. Getting her hot. If you've done your homework, then the exam should be easy. Especially since you're giving it. Use that knowledge of her body to get her going. Be creative. Use your hands to lightly stroke sensitive areas. Use your lips to apply pressure and your tongue to lick her. Then lightly blow on the recently licked area. It'll give her chills. Get dangerously close to her vagina and clitoris without making contact. Let her feel your warm breath down there but keep yourself away from tasting her until her body's begging you for it. It shouldn't take too long if you've handled your exploration duties correctly. You'll be able to tell.
  4. Your tongue action. Ok boys it's time for the big leagues. You need to be paying attention to how your woman reacts. Start out by pressing it against her clitoris very lightly. Use the broad area to slowly lick her clitoris up and down. Observe how she reacts. If she likes it, then continue for a minute. Use the tip of your tongue to flick her clitoris. Think of a licking a lollipop. Observe her reaction. If she likes it, continue to tease her. Use varied tongue maneuvers. Take a mental note of the ones she likes the most and trash the one's she doesn't quite respond to. Feel free to mix it up a little.
  5. Her vagina. Don't be scared to get in there and get wet. Use your tongue to lick her opening and the surrounding areas. Bring your fingers into the action as well. Finger her while you lick her clitoris. Press your finger against a cluster of nerves inside her vagina (you'll know when you feel it) and stroke it. Remember, it's all about your creativity and your willingness to explore. Great oral sex is born out of the man doing anything and everything she likes.
  6. Put it all together. Use everything you've found out to get her to her zenith. Once she begins to get closer to orgasm, it's up to you to keep it going until she goes over the edge. Don't stop till she pulls away. Then get right back down there and do it again. Remember, patience, creativity and dedication to your knew found craft will make you great at oral sex.
Posted on: Jul. 23, 2010