How To Act At Swingers Sex Clubs
Figuring out how to act at a swingers' sex clubs isn't rocket science. Just be yourself. Just be natural. Swingers' sex clubs are an alternative lifestyle. Because of this, most people that have never attended a swingers' sex club party really don't know how to act. Well guys you can't go to a swingers' sex club and act brand new to the lifestyle. It's ok to have never been, but if you go into a swingers' sex club party don't act like a tourist. If you carry an attitude of closed mindedness you won't get a very warm reception from the swingers' sex club veterans. Instead, use these guidelines. Here's how to maneuver through a swingers' sex club.
- Be cool. Just be really chill when you arrive at a swingers' sex club party. Don't try to draw lots of attention to yourself. Don't be a show off. Look at everyone else? You don't see them bragging or showing off their packages do you? No. They're there for one thing and one thing only. Swingers are trying to experience some great sex with multiple partners. Its for collective enjoyment. Swingers' sex clubs aren't about one loud mouth showboat trying to get attention. If you walk in there acting like a show off, the only swinging you'll be doing is with your left instead of your right hand.
- Explore. Look around. Explore. This is what swingers' sex clubs are about. Get in there and get comfortable with your surrounding. A successful swinger is one that doesn't mind exploring, doesn't mind being open minded. So get up and get acclimated with the shear awesomeness of the swingers' sex club party.
- Be friendly. If you're going to be isolated, then just stay home and watch a porn. Being friendly is probably the most important element to having a good time in a swingers sex club. This is how it works. If a couple is interested, they'll approach you and your date. If they like you, then you guys will do the do. So, it's important to make yourself accessible to other folks. That's what you're there for. Say for instance, you like a particular girl. Once again, being friendly goes a long way. Be polite. Be friendly. Go introduce yourself. If you guys get along then it'll probably lead to a freaky sexual adventure.
- Be respectful. If and when you hook up with someone, make sure you respect what they want. If she's into rough sex, then by all means give it to her. If she prefers another form of sexual intimacy, then oblige. Don't go in there treating women like objects because you'll never be invited to another swingers' sex club again. It's all about enjoying some great sex and making some new friends. So get out there and get acquainted.