How To Arouse Women

By: BWalter

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learning how to arouse women is all in the mind. Their minds that is. You see, men are easily visually stimulated. While women can be aroused by what they see, they’re much more sensitive to things that poke at their emotions. Arousing women not only means manipulating their five senses, it also means stroking their minds. As a matter of fact, the right words can be far more erotic than a touch or smell could ever be. But, the skilled man knows that arousing a woman fully means stimulating her in as many ways as you can. Lucky for you, women are built for this sort of thing. Here’s how to arouse women.

  1. Understanding her. Before you can begin arousing your woman, you need to understand exactly who you have in front of you. Women are a ball of emotional energy, wrapped in literally thousands of erogenous zones. Go back and read it again. Thousands of erogenous zones. Most guys make the mistake of trying to equate a woman’s arousal to their own. No way buddy. Men have centrally one area for deep arousal. OK maybe a few more but, women are far more complex creatures when it comes to arousal. But, it’s these complexities that make arousing your woman all the more enjoyable. It’s literally a journey to find out ways to get her hot. The best part is, the journey is constantly evolving, which means you’ll never find them all.
  2. The right words. They’re the express train to her mind. Saying the right thing can get your woman aroused without even touching her. Tell her how beautiful she is to you. Tell her how uncontrollably powerful her sex appeal is, which in turn, draws you to her. Make her feel like she’s the only woman alive. What ever it is you need to say to her to emphasize how magnetic she is to you, say it. Tell her how badly you need to be close to her, to feel her. You get the idea. If you’re doing this over the phone, she’ll be aroused before you even walk through the door. But, don’t think you’re done. You haven’t even started.
  3. Exploring her. Remember, she has thousands of erogenous areas on her body. It’s up to you to find and stimulate as many of these places as possible. You can do this by kissing, licking, biting, even blowing on certain places. If you don’t know your woman, now is the time to get acquainted. Here’s a hint. Stay away from the obvious areas for a while. Don’t fondle the breasts and touch between her thighs. First of all it’ll build up her want for you to touch these areas. Secondly, it’ll teach you to explore her body more fully because you won’t have that sexual safety net to fall back on. Now, once you’ve found other places that make her hot, feel free to pay as much attention to her evident areas as possible.
  4. Putting it together. Continue to explore her. Continue to stroke her mind. The beautiful thing about your woman is that there is literally no limit to how much arousal she can take. Now, she may get to the point where she wants to rip your clothes off (which is a great thing), but you can continue to stimulate her, even during sex. Your exploration of her never ends. Make it your personal mission to continue to push her, to find more and more ways to get her aroused. 
Posted on: Nov. 01, 2010