How To Ask Her To Be Your Girlfriend

By: Anessia Walker

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you want to take things to the next level with a girl you've got your eye own, here are some tips on how to ask her to be your girlfriend. You have chosen the girl you feel will be a perfect girlfriend for you. You get along great; you have a lot in common. Now, the hard and nerve racking part is figuring out how to ask her to be your girlfriend. Is she even looking at you like boyfriend material or just a good friend? Well, it’s not as complicated as you may think it is to ask her to be your girlfriend. There are only two things she can say, and either way it goes, you will still be right, but perhaps this will make it easier for you to ask her to be your number one.

Become friends with her first. Get to know her before asking her to be your girlfriend. Beauty is only skin deep and will only go so far. See if she would be a compatible girlfriend before trying to take it to the next level.
Ask her out on a few dates. Take her out to see how she carries herself in public. There is nothing worse than an attractive one with no class. Maybe invite her to hang-out with some of your other female. If she can hold her own and get along with your friends, she is a shoe in.
Try to find out how she feels about you. Don’t directly ask her if she would like to be your girlfriend; beat around the bush. Say something like what kind of friend does she think you are or what kind of friend she would like you to be.
Enlist the help of one of her closest friends. If you are lucky enough to know one of her good friends, perhaps she will is be your ambassador in letting this special girl know you want to be in a monogamous relationship with her. Especially if the friend knows you are a great guy, she might really sell it to her friend.
Ask her to become your girlfriend over the phone. If you are extremely shy and don’t want to risk rejection in person, then call her up over the phone. Use your serious and sexy voice when you ask her to be yours.
Tell her you would like to take her out; you have an important question to ask her. She will have an ideal what you would like to ask her. If she agrees to go with you, odds are in your favor that she wants to be your girlfriend.
Write her a poem or give her a card asking her to be your girlfriend. Please don’t use the roses are red or violet are blue poem. That’s not very original— try to be a little more creative. You can always use the words of a real poet to tell her how you feel.