Learning how to be happy, Christian, and single is a very admirable set of goals. Everyone deserves to be happy, though many of us can't take being single. Happiness isn't something that's given to you. It's something that you have to give to yourself. As far as following Christian teachings, that's totally up to your personal preference. Make no mistake becoming happy, Christian and single is a very proactive process. No one can do it for you. Becoming happy, while living a Christian life and being single starts when you decide to take the world's most important journey. The only way to achieve happiness, while being single and living a Christian life is when you journey within. Better understanding of yourself will get you closer to the happiness you seek. Here's how to be happy, Christian and single.
- Your happiness. Everyone wants to be happy, but not everyone knows what true happiness is. Being happy, Christian and single is an idea that stands on three legs. The leg of happiness is the most substantial of the three. If you're not happy with yourself, living your ideal Christian lifestyle will be damn near impossible. How can you be a could Christian with others if you can't find happiness and beauty in yourself. Being single will most definitely be harder to deal with because you'll be internally unsatisfied. Hell, when you're not happy with yourself, your relationships will suffer too. So, in order to be content being a Christian single you have to be happy first. The only way you can truly be happy with yourself is to accept the things about you that can not be changed. Repair the things you can improve. Lastly and most importantly, you need to feed your passions, use your individual talents and work towards your goals. You have one life and you should not waste it endlessly trying to please others. Make it fulfilling for yourself. Remember a happy, Christian and single life has to start with your happiness.
- The Christian part. Once you're happy with yourself you can get on with the righteousness. The Bible has a lot of pages. From Genesis to Revelations, there's a lot of great stories. There's only one particular story you need to read. There are multiple versions of Jesus' life. He performed great miracles and did a lot of things you and I will never be able to do. The great news is, we don't have to. One simple sentence embodies how Jesus would want us to act. Treat others the way you'd like to be treated. It's as simple as that. Unless you're one of those jerks that likes to be, well, a jerk. There's the second leg to being happy, Christian and single.
- Ah, being single. If you've got a hold of the being happy part and the acting Christian part, this is easy. When you're happy with yourself and you're living a good life, you don't fixate too much with your relationship status. If you're with someone, you'll understand how to keep the relationship running smoothly. When you're single, you'll use it as a time of more self improvement until you meet the one that makes you want to upgrade your solo routine to a duet.