How To Be A Lover

Have you ever thought about what can you do to make your partner happy and how to be a lover? To be a lover requires you to humble yourself because you have to be selfless. You need to take the initiative of doing things that will make her happy and be sensitive to your lover's feelings. You have to be responsible for caring about your partner and be willing to do anything for her happiness.

1. Take a vacation with your lover. Take your partner to a place where the problems of everyday life won't follow you. Stress can be the cause of many ruined relationships. Anything negative needs to be temporarily forgotten. Eventually they'll appear again, but you two need to keep the mind frame that you're taking a break from stress. Try to rekindle the sparks you had with your lover. This vacation should be all about your lover; make her breakfast, cook her favorite food or order out and say you made it for her–its the thought that counts. Problems in a relationship will begin to fade away, with the love you two show for each other. Giving her a chance to get away will show that you are trying to be a better lover.
2. Learn to communicate and show how much you appreciate your lover. Ask her how her day went. This implies that you're interested on the activities she did that day. Give your lover a massage and compliment her soft skin. This will relieve tension built-up from the day. Being concerned will immediately make you appear to be a better lover to her.
3. Make love, don't just have sex. Being intimate with your lover is a process. You can't jump into intercourse and not let your partner feel the love from you. She will feel like a tool, built for your pleasure. Caress her soft skin, whisper into her ear and tell her how beautiful she looks and kiss every part of her body that arouses her. Be prepared to take your time, this is what a lover would do. Doing this will make your lover appreciative and it will stimulate her mind and body.