How To Be Mysterious
Learn how to be mysterious if you want to attract adventurous women. Some women love a challenge and few challenges are more fun than mysterious men. If you want to draw curious ladies to you, pick up a few tricks that could make you seem more interesting than you really are.
- Don't always be available. Do not make plans with your woman seven nights per week. It's hard to be mysterious if you're always with your girl. You don't need to avoid her; just have a few other activities planned that don't include her. Pick up a hobby or see your friends. Make sure that she knows you're doing something interesting and not just watching TV. Talk to her on the phone during the afternoon and tell her that you can't see her because you have plans. When she asks you what your plans are, give her as little information as possible without making her think you're seeing another woman. For example, just tell her you are meeting an old friend.
- Be vague when you are telling her about yourself. You can't be mysterious if it's your habit to run your mouth. When women ask you what you do for a living, say you work in finance. Don't explain the actual hour by hour activities you complete at your job. If you're a teacher, just say you work with kids. You don't want to seem like you are purposefully withholding information; you just want to leave interested in hearing more.
- Surprise her with a skill she didn't know you had. Effortless competence can be very sexy. Don't tell your girlfriend that you speak fluent Mandarin or that you know how to replace the engine in her car. Find a situation in which you can use this skill in front of her. If you act like your accomplishment was no big deal to you and it never occurred to you to mention it to her, it will make her think that you know how to do all sorts of other interesting things she doesn't know about.
- Don't lie. There's a difference between being mysterious and being just plain shady. If you're being vague because you're cheating or a criminal or something, you're not mysterious, you're a liar. Even if she catches you in a small lie, for example you tell her you had to work late on a special project and she finds out that "special project" was happy hour drinks, you are going to look like an idiot and she is not going to trust you anymore.