Learn how to be patient with your girlfriend. Whether it concerns sexual issues or issues concerning your friends, patience can help to lighten the tension. There is a serious problem somewhere if your girlfriend is acting agitated or unhappy. Getting angry will only add fuel to the fire. Take your time and find out exactly what the situation entails.
- Allow your girlfriend to vent occasionally. Venting is a healthy process and can allow your girlfriend an outlet to relieve stress. You have more chance of reducing her anger or irritation by listening, and it will help you learn to be patient with your girlfriend.
- Offer advice on the given situation. It is okay to offer advice as long as it is done without forcefulness. Do not insist that your way is right. There are many facets to the problem and, with that, there are many solutions. Try to be patient with your girlfriend when she is exhibiting these behaviors.
- Allow her some space. If letting her vent and giving helpful advice does not do the job, then space is definitely needed. Show that you can be patient with your girlfriend by leaving the room for a while. Letting her think over her options will give a fresh perspective on whatever you two have been faced with.
- Do not forget the intimacy. This does not necessarily mean sexual intimacy, guys. Always make sure when tensions are high to remain her comfort when in need. Even if she is being the difficult one, still offer a shoulder to cry on. In most cases, the issue you two are facing has been brought on by outside influences. Now is the time to have an open mind and open arms and practice being patient with your girlfriend.