How To Build Your Confidence
Learning how to build your confidence will help you succeed in love and life. Women tend to be more attracted to men who are full of confidence. In order to successfully build your confidence, you have to believe that you can do the things you want and have the motivation to go out and do them.
- Remember that everyday is a new day. Events from your past can often bring your confidence down. For instance, a string of women may have turned you down for dates or you may have unsuccessfully tried to accomplish a task. The best way to build your confidence is to learn from your past failures and then put them aside. Just because some women turned you down does not mean all women will.
- Let yourself mess up. Life is often a series of mistakes. If you don't let yourself make those mistakes, odds are you are not really living. Build your confidence by making silly mistakes. Get up on stage and sing during karaoke night. Try to go bowling or learn how to roller skate. You may look silly doing so, but you will send a message to the world that you are a confident man.
- Just do it. Often, the best way to build your confidence is to simply jump in. When you just do something, you learn that it was not as scary as you thought and that it was in fact something you were able to accomplish. Ask a woman out. Even if she says no thanks, you'll build your confidence by learning that asking someone to dinner isn't that hard. If she says yes, you'll get a confidence boost from having the guts to ask and from the fact that she wants to spend time with you.