How To Cope With Intimacy Problems
Some men don’t know how to cope with intimacy problems. Most often blame is laid on one party or the other without find the real reason for the problem. Some men cope by having an affair to make sure they still have what it takes. This mistake is common because some men don’t realize that intimacy isn’t about the sex as much as it is about the little things that make you two a couple.
- Talk. To cope with intimacy problems there needs to be talking going on between you two. You need to find out what the problem is that is causing the lack of intimacy. You also need to talk about what you expect from each other in a relationship. Ask them what they would like to see change and how they would like it to change.
- Act. You need to act the way you want your partner to act. If you want them to be more attentive then you must also be more attentive. If you want them to be more forth coming then you must be as well. Sometimes the best way to show someone what you need from them is to show them.
- Be Proactive. If you feel the relationship is faltering, nip it in the bud and find out way. Even why trying to fix a relationship the progress can fade or even begin to go backwards. If you don’t stop it soon enough you could be back at square one or worse.
- Be Prepared. Coping and solving intimacy problems can take some time so don’t expect it to happen overnight. It could take weeks or months to get to the intimacy level that you both desire.