How To Date Black Women

By: Olivia Hariley

Break Studios Contributing Writer

You want to know how to date a black woman. It's not hard and you can meet the woman of your dreams. Here are a few simple tips so you are able to meet that black woman of your dreams. 

  1. Be yourself. There is no need to pretend to be someone or something you are not. No need to show off money or bling just be you and that will be enough.
  2. Be honest. Honesty is always the best policy. There is no need to lie about anything in your life so don't start. Lying just makes sure a relationship is guaranteed to fail before it begins. 
  3. Learn to laugh. A sense of humor is key to meeting a nice black woman. Women want someone who can laugh, joke and be funny with. Humor is a great way to get a good woman.
  4. Have goals. Do you have a career? If so what are your goals for it? Black women want a man who has goals and is not just skimping by. The want a man who has a future planned out.
  5. Get a job! This goes along with goals. If you are not employed find something. Black women want a man with a job and you should be working anyway so go out and apply if you are not working now.
  6. Be open minded. Expand your taste in music, movies etc. Don't be so quick to judge her tastes or what she likes. No one likes a guy who makes fun of what you are into.
  7. Observe her surroundings. Who is she with? How is she dressed? Taking note of her likes, friends or family is a great way to meet a black woman. She will see you take a genuine interest in her.
  8. Listen to what she says! Nothing is more annoying then a man who does not listen to a woman. No black woman will want to be with you if you do not listen to what she says. Listen, take note and remember what is said to you.
  9. Be kind. It's not that hard. Just be nice and don't be too pushy. Kindness goes a long way when trying to meet a black woman.
  10. Quit the one liners. Leave them and as said above just be you. You will not meet a black woman with the cheesy pick up lines and one liner. 
Posted on: Aug. 14, 2010