How to Date Fat Women

By: K. Bryan

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Knowing how to date fat women is not much different from dating any other type of women. Women of all types require affection, attention, respect and understanding. However, there are a few things you should be aware of to avoid offending or embarrassing a fat girlfriend.

  1. Dining in public will be an issue. When you date fat women, remember they are paranoid that people judge them when they eat. This includes you. Even though you may not have a thought in your head about the size of the steak she ordered, she will suspect that you do. Distract her from her discomfort; talk about something besides the plates in front of you. If she suspects that someone is staring at her while she is eating, take the negative attention off of her by saying something like, "They must think I eat like a pig." Do what ever you can to distract her from any possible negative thoughts about herself.
  2. Don't guess her clothing size. As ridiculous as it may sound, women are obsessed with their clothing size: the smaller the number, the better. Overshoot that number by trying to guess her size, and you will have a very unhappy woman on your hands. Do yourself a favor; if you are going to date fat women, and don't buy her any clothes unless you are absolutely sure of what her size is. If you want to buy her clothing, let her pick it out and buy it for her. Surprise gifts are romantic, but imagine how she will feel if it is too small, or even worse, too big. A feminine shape is difficult to dress, and a few extra curves doesn't make it any easier. To be cautious, stick with practical gifts when you date fat women.
  3. Support her through her weight loss successes and failures. Whether your girlfriend is trying to lose a few pounds or is making a huge lifestyle change, support her through the changes. This is crucial to understand if you are going to date fat women. As with all goals in life, she may not be successful, which can be devastating for her. Be there for her when she is down and help her to stay motivated and focused on her goals. It will be a difficult time for her, and she will love you even more for helping her.
  4. Remember, a woman is a woman. Fat or thin, all women expect their boyfriends to cherish them. Use common sense, and your relationship will grow. If you date fat women, the results will be worth it.
Posted on: Apr. 02, 2010