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How To Date A Younger Women

By: Mallorie Greene

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Figuring out how to date a younger woman can be awkward for a man who is not used to dating a younger person, or thrilling for others to get their hands on a young thing. Either way, there are rules to follow to capture a young woman’s interests and her heart. Whether you are dating for the excitement or to try something new, read this article on what to do get a woman to fall in love.

  1. Be yourself. To date a young woman, do not try to act or dress younger than you actuallt are, trying to talk in cool slang. Unless you want to be shamed and have her laugh her head off, the best thing to do is be genuine. A woman can spot a lame man, regardless his age right away so make the best impression.
  2. Treat her as your equal. Dating a young woman has its benefits, the gap in age difference, the high fives, or look of approval your friends give you, but what is not okay is being controlling. Assuming you have an upper hand because of your age can be a problem and make you come across as a jerk because she is younger than you are. Give her the respect she deserves and do not act like a father or know it all because you have more experience. Putting her on your level gives you huge points by treating her as an adult.
  3. Make sure her attraction is genuine. Now that you have calmed down and finally had a young woman that may have interested in dating you, it is important to realize that the attraction is going both ways. Observe actions and look for any red flags. Is she really into you? Does she treat you like an actual lover and not a father figure? Those are things you need to watch out for to see if she is truly in love, or looking for a sugar daddy.
  4. Discuss your relationship openly. Be honest about the relationship because it is obvious you are dating a young woman and not everyone is going to approve it. Talk about the pros and cons of a older man/younger woman relationship and if you both can handle it together. A relationship takes work and more so when there are age differences.
Posted on: Jul. 22, 2010